How to Choose Crystals that Resonate with You

Crystals have their own vibration.

All crystals and gemstones vibrate on their own individual frequency. In that respect, they are like us human beings, each resonating with a unique energy that contributes to the overall tapestry of existence.

We have all had the experience of meeting a perfect stranger for the first time and either immediately liking that person or feeling an antipathy towards them – with no way of explaining our feelings or emotions. This phenomenon can be likened to the way certain crystals draw us in while others may leave us feeling unsettled; it is an intrinsic connection that transcends rational thought and logic. Just as we instinctively respond to the frequencies of those around us, the gemstones we encounter can evoke similar reactions, tapping into the deeper layers of our intuition and spirit, ultimately guiding us toward meaningful connections and choices in our lives.

To fall in perfect love is a beautiful and wondrous experience – the coming together of two minds, two spirits and two physical bodies, both vibrating on the same beautiful frequency!

Crystals, Energies and Properties

Crystals and gemstones should be chosen in the same way, with careful consideration to their unique properties and energetic frequencies. It is important that the stones we choose and use not only resonate with us but also vibrate to a frequency as close as possible to our own, creating a harmonious connection that can enhance our well-being. This alignment can amplify their beneficial effects, whether for healing, meditation, or personal empowerment.

Individual methods of choosing crystals and gemstones vary from person to person, influenced by personal intuition and previous experiences, but usually include: – assessing the stone’s appearance and feel, – considering its metaphysical properties, – relying on guided meditations or crystal readings, and – even consulting with experienced practitioners who can provide insight into specific crystal characteristics. Ultimately, the goal is to select stones that genuinely resonate with our energy, fostering a deeper connection that enriches our lives.

Some of the methods of choosing our crystals include the following:

Close your eyes and quietly meditate for a few moments. Then open your eyes very quickly and pick up the very first stone to which your eye becomes naturally drawn.
Run your hand (either your left or right hand depending upon which you prefer to use) over all the stones available for selection. You will soon discover that one stone will ‘stick’ to your hand as if it is ‘ tacky’ or surrounded with glue. This is your stone.
Intuitively you will instinctively ‘know’ which stone you should choose, and which is ‘right’ for you! You might feel as if the stone is jumping up and down shouting, “Me! Me! Me! Choose Me!”
Or you might sense or even ‘see’ a strong crystalline white light radiating from the stone and attracting you like a magnet.
Should you happen to be a competent dowser then you should be able to select the most appropriate stone by using your own individual dowsing techniques…

And sometimes you truly feel as if your stones are choosing you!

When it Happens to Me…

This has often happened to me. All my most powerful and energized quartz crystals have all arrived on my doorstep (so to speak) for a particular purpose and have a special reason for wanting me to work with them. Each crystal seems to hold its own unique energy, almost as if it has been waiting for the right moment to come into my life. There’s always a sense of synchronicity involved, as if the universe is guiding these beautiful stones to me at precisely the right time. I find it fascinating how these seemingly ordinary minerals can harbor such profound energies and intentions. Normally, they don’t cost me much money, which makes these encounters feel even more magical, as if I am being gifted these extraordinary tools for personal growth and healing without a burden on my finances. I cherish the connection I feel with each crystal, knowing they are part of a greater journey I am meant to undertake.

Choosing for Friends

Should you wish to choose a quartz crystal or a gemstone for one of your friends who, lives some distance away from you, follow exactly the same principles as if you were choosing a personal stone for yourself. But on this occasion visualize, as strongly as possible, a picture of your friend within your mind’s eye. With a little practice you will soon discover that it is very easy to select just the right quartz crystal or gemstone for any of your friends who are unable to choose their stones in person for themselves. This is a great way to decide which crystals to give upon special occasions such as Christmas, Birthdays or Anniversaries.

Conclusion

It is my personal intuitive feeling that we humans are connected to the wondrous bounty ot Earth’s Treasures by the fact that we originally came from the earth itself. Being an organic organism, we are attracted to the minerals which we require at the time like a magnet attracting metal pins. It is no accident that we can walk into a crystal shop and say “That’s the one we want!” emphatically without fully reaslisng that it is our inate energies attracting the crystal we think we desire. The trick is not to second guess ourselves, but to go with that gut instinct of the first one we see.